You have to adopt the philosophy that "her pleasure is your pleasure”. This means when you perform oral on her make sure you make her feel like you WANT to do it. That in fact it is an "honor”. Don’t be all BAD BOY on her, be the giver and put in the effort you would expect from a woman performing oral on you.

Wash up because you will use your mouth as much as you will use your hands. You will work the tiniest part of body with your undivided attention. The first thing you will do is SLOWLY open her "lips” with your fingers – slightly manipulating the outer lips and clitoris to slowly arouse her and get her fluids flowing. As you play with her pussy, she will respond with certain noises that tell you that you are on the right track.

Lick the clitoris with the tip of your tongue but keep your tongue SOFT not hard when doing this it feels better to her. It is the same slow stroking a cat gives itself while licking, deep soft strokes. The only TALK I recommend would be to ask her, "Faster, slower?” She might not respond with faster or slower, she might respond with, "Use your fingers”.

Using the fingers to "bang” while licking the clit is going to be ultra effective in finding what she likes and how much she wants. Keep in mind her G-Spot should also command a lot of your attention as well if you really are set on getting her to climax. Many women have never had an orgasm any other way other than from oral sex so you better get good at it because if you can’t give her an orgasm from sex or oral sex you won’t be much use around her house.

Continue on with the stroking of the clitoris while manipulating the vagina and G-Spot and also try SUCKING gently on her clitoris as well. Women love it when you suck on their clitoris – but don’t use your teeth because that little baby is sensitive. Now take everything you just learned and repeat, repeat, repeat, she will coach and "fine tune” you but treat that sweet pussy like you own it. Pet it, caress it, suck on it, finger bang it, massage it and show her that you not only like your job you are good at it. Show her that when you give her oral that it is as much for you as it is for her and having her come in your mouth is actually "your pleasure”.



By: Jackson Morris
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